Where Would I be?
Where would I be....if I had finished my Ph.D at Indiana University? For some reason this is what I woke up thinking about this morning. I rarely dwell on anything in my past, especially things I could not control, but, with the changes that have happened with how we communicate with others, being mostly through social media, what used to be covert in person behavior, has become more overt and easier to connect with motive. We believe that people do not pay attention to our digital behavior, but the truth is for the attentive, those behaviors are so much more obvious than they would be based on in person conversations and second hand conversations-which are gossip to most of us and untrustworthy of any type of judgement. For example, I once had a boss who for the first two years I worked for her, hid her raging narcissism from me. She never yelled while I was around and did everything she could to make me feel valued-I should have noticed she was overcompensating, but alas, I wanted ...